# Melissa Louise > Internationally recognized sacred sexuality & intimacy coach helping women, men, and couples feel alive, orgasmic, and deeply connected. Author of the Substack "Inside the Pleasure Studio". ## Key pages - [Home](https://www.melissalouise.world/): Overview of coaching, programs, and free resources - [About / Bio](https://www.melissalouise.world/bio): Who Melissa Louise is and how she works - [Fully Charged](https://www.melissalouise.world/fullycharged): Flagship program - [Free resources for women](https://www.melissalouise.world/women-free-resources) - [Free resources for men](https://www.melissalouise.world/men-free-resources) - [Free resources for couples](https://www.melissalouise.world/couples-free-resources) ## Articles (Inside the Pleasure Studio) - [Adults build it, the children burn it down](https://www.melissalouise.world/articles/adults-build-it-the-children-burn): Sep 30, 2026. Two adults walk into a life together. - [Women protect. Men look for threats.](https://www.melissalouise.world/articles/women-protect-men-look-for-threats): Sep 3, 2026. Every single week i listen to men, some 6 foot tall, some just coming out of a cross fit class onto our call and others coming out of their 3rd marriage, as they admit they did not go and speak to… - [Yes, SEX is a need](https://www.melissalouise.world/articles/yes-sex-is-a-need): Sep 2, 2026. When ever I see a man with a profile that says he is a chef or likes to cook, I respond with … - [He had an Orgasm like no other](https://www.melissalouise.world/articles/he-had-an-orgasm-like-no-other): Sep 1, 2026. Inside The Pleasure Studio with Melissa Louise is a reader-supported publication. - [How he hears the word “want”](https://www.melissalouise.world/articles/how-he-hears-the-word-want): Aug 31, 2026. Working with so many men each and every week, I get to collect a lot of data. - [In just one wk he had energy of a 30yr old](https://www.melissalouise.world/articles/in-just-one-wk-he-had-energy-of-a): Aug 30, 2026. Inside The Pleasure Studio with Melissa Louise is a reader-supported publication. - [Your Relationship, YOUR rules. ( btw )](https://www.melissalouise.world/articles/your-relationship-your-rules-btw): Aug 21, 2026. I hear through a few channels that people are too nervous or intimidated to talk to me because they think I am not an advocate of a 2 person relationship… - [How the structure of monogamy is destroying critical thinking in our boys.](https://www.melissalouise.world/articles/how-monogamy-is-destroying-critical): Aug 20, 2026. .NO…….this is not shade on committed relationships, so stick with me…. - [Can we not use the word “vent” he said..](https://www.melissalouise.world/articles/can-we-not-use-the-word-vent-he-said): Aug 19, 2026. The story goes like this… - [Imagine LIVING like this](https://www.melissalouise.world/articles/imagine-living-like-this): Aug 13, 2026. This is a short message as I am about to go and place my feet in the river and hug my favourite tree. - [This is a conversation that men have been absent from](https://www.melissalouise.world/articles/this-is-a-conversation-that-men-have): Aug 9, 2026. for way too long - [Science is catching up to UPLVL™](https://www.melissalouise.world/articles/science-is-catching-up-to-uplvl): Aug 6, 2026. My final client last night said something pretty profound. - [The connection between her nagging](https://www.melissalouise.world/articles/the-connection-between-her-nagging): Aug 5, 2026. and you cumming to fast - [You have been lied to](https://www.melissalouise.world/articles/you-have-been-lied-to): Aug 2, 2026. when it comes to Sex. - [Poetry to your Semen](https://www.melissalouise.world/articles/poetry-to-your-semen): Jul 31, 2026. Inside The Pleasure Studio with Melissa Louise is a reader-supported publication. - [How your Tits and Testies can save your life.](https://www.melissalouise.world/articles/how-your-tits-and-testies-can-save): Jul 30, 2026. Inside The Pleasure Studio with Melissa Louise is a reader-supported publication. - [I did this so you would not have to..](https://www.melissalouise.world/articles/i-did-this-so-you-would-not-have): Jul 27, 2026. Someone asked me last night if I would ever go back to India. - [Men have been systematically stripped from their power.](https://www.melissalouise.world/articles/men-have-been-systematically-stripped): Jul 26, 2026. Look….. the majority of people in your life and over your life span will not say this to you. Not your doctor, not your sports coach ( although she or he should of all people ) not your friends, not… - [Have you ever had a man share this with you?](https://www.melissalouise.world/articles/have-you-ever-had-a-man-share-this): Jul 25, 2026. I always say I have one of the best jobs on the planet ( and it does not feel like a “job” per se because of it) . - [8 different types of orgasm for men -](https://www.melissalouise.world/articles/8-different-types-of-orgasm-for-men): Jul 8, 2026. ( women have more btw ) - [Flirting is a dance](https://www.melissalouise.world/articles/flirting-is-a-dance): Jul 6, 2026. It is always better to dance like a Salsa than line dancing ! - ["When I am done, I am so high"](https://www.melissalouise.world/articles/when-i-am-done-i-am-so-high): Jul 3, 2026. I am a f*cking DMT addict" she says - [You say you have no time for sex](https://www.melissalouise.world/articles/you-say-you-have-no-time-for-sex): Jul 1, 2026. If this is something you find yourself saying a lot…i am going to challenge you on it. - [Your Ejaculate is NOT a Waste Product](https://www.melissalouise.world/articles/your-ejaculate-is-not-a-waste-product): Jun 27, 2026. What you are really throwing away - [Women in their 50's & 60's](https://www.melissalouise.world/articles/women-in-their-50s-and-60s): Jun 26, 2026. are the most dangerous thing the attention economy has ever encountered. - [The connection between the bedroom and boardroom](https://www.melissalouise.world/articles/the-connection-between-the-bedroom): Jun 25, 2026. Inside The Pleasure Studio with Melissa Louise is a reader-supported publication. - [7 reasons NOT to learn UPLVL Communication ™](https://www.melissalouise.world/articles/7-reasons-not-to-learn-uplvl-communication): Jun 24, 2026. I mean….. being right instead of happy and responsible for our own lives,,.. that is intoxicating at times. And some of us hang onto that like a security blanket. If you were raised in a household… - [The Cost of Having Breasts](https://www.melissalouise.world/articles/the-cost-of-having-breasts): Jun 23, 2026. If you are a boob man…god we know you love them. - [You are wired to cum fast..](https://www.melissalouise.world/articles/you-are-wired-to-cum-fast): Jun 21, 2026. I can hear many men right now going..”see. - [Why he is not speaking to you](https://www.melissalouise.world/articles/why-he-is-not-speaking-to-you): Jun 14, 2026. ……. uuufff I know you know that feeling. - [Today is the day.](https://www.melissalouise.world/articles/today-is-the-day): Jun 12, 2026. Oh lovers…. I have been sitting on this for a few weeks and today is the day I say it out loud. Yesterday I announced it whilst talking with Jennifer on The Open Bedroom Podcast. Which by the way, my… - [This whole "Queen" ideology](https://www.melissalouise.world/articles/this-whole-queen-ideology): Jun 11, 2026. and what is strangely funny about it... - [Would you pay the true cost freedom?](https://www.melissalouise.world/articles/would-you-pay-the-true-cost-freedom): Jun 10, 2026. A little bit of my story - [You had them](https://www.melissalouise.world/articles/you-had-them): Jun 7, 2026. Before you knew what they were.... - [You are the entire Orgasm baby!!](https://www.melissalouise.world/articles/you-are-the-entire-orgasm-baby): Jun 5, 2026. We all know that story we have been handed…. - [This is the cost of freedom](https://www.melissalouise.world/articles/this-is-the-cost-of-freedom): Jun 4, 2026. Yesterdays article has sparked off a cascade of moments in my memory and I will be making a podcast episode on it…with some secrets 😜 for my inner circle paid subscribers.. - [Imagine being that free....](https://www.melissalouise.world/articles/imagine-being-that-free): Jun 3, 2026. At some level everyone wants freedom. - [Turning 50 is the best happiness pill available](https://www.melissalouise.world/articles/turning-50-is-the-best-happiness): May 31, 2026. And nobody is selling it - [Use it or lose it](https://www.melissalouise.world/articles/use-it-or-lose-it): May 29, 2026. He cant work for you if you don’t work for him. ## Connect - Substack: https://melissalouise.substack.com/ - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissa_louise_intimacy - YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@melissalouise