I mean….. being right instead of happy and responsible for our own lives,,.. that is intoxicating at times. And some of us hang onto that like a security blanket.
If you were raised in a household where conflict was spoken nearly every single day, then living without is like a form of abandonment, I know you have heard me talk and talk and demonstrates the Venting containers of UPLVL, but what actually happens with the clients I work with is we move to processing, and THIS is the kind of gold we get to dig into and look at.
I mean….lets be honest..we could all use more silence ( …jajajaja…) BUT as a weapon, it is rubbish at creating peace. There may not be words spoken but just walking past you one can be cut into little pieces….. ouch
Oh the righteousness …… that covers the vulnerability of the inner child who is actually really scared. Scared of truly being understood, taken care of and listened to. Because all of that can be taken away, or weaponized, or mocked, or let down.. it is better to not let anyone in.
I mean…. where is the remote… click…Netflix..the drone of entertainment. I don’t have time to connect, eye gaze, share feelings, hear you out..i have to get up and work tomorrow.
because then you get to blame…. it is so much easier when it is all someone else’s fault.
Because then you don’t need to look at yourself. That is like opening Pandoras Box. And that could undo you ( you believe ).. when would that ever stop ?
Right……..!!!! They misunderstood you…you not them.
It is true….. ready to put down your sword?
It is so worth it lovers. AND so possible.
I look forward to speaking with you. 💋
M