A 6-week live group program for men · with Melissa Louise
FULLY
CHARGED
the gym for your cock, and the man behind it.
The man who masters his sexual energy doesn't just last longer in bed. He holds his ground. He shows up. He is different everywhere.
Melissa Louise · as featured on
Authentic Sex with Juliet Allen 
The Open Bedroom Podcast 
The Intimate Marriage Podcast 
How to Get the Girl Podcast 
Libido Lounge Podcast 
Pleasurelit Podcast The shame creeps in before you've even rolled over.
You know what happened. She knows what happened. And the silence after is doing all the talking that neither of you will do out loud.
This is not just a story about lasting longer in bed. That's part of it, and yes, you will. But the man who can master his sexual energy is not just better in the bedroom. He is different everywhere. He holds his ground. He shows up. He stops apologising for his own desire with his body before the conversation has even started.
That's what Fully Charged builds.
I joined Melissa's program because I was having trouble mastering my ejaculation. Sometimes I would come earlier than I wanted, and other times I could not come when I wanted to. All that changed after six weeks of lessons from Melissa. She spoke to us about the power of our breath and how to use it to control our pulse. She gave us exercises, stretches, and yoga positions to strengthen and relax our prostate, which controls the flow of semen. And her advice on what women want and need from their lover was priceless. With her lessons in mind, now I don't focus on the concern of ejaculation, but instead the enjoyment of being with my lover and giving her pleasure. I focus on my breath and her, I communicate my needs and desires in bed, and ask for hers, and I feel in control of my orgasm. Thank you Melissa!
Greg
Costa Rica
Heard in the room
This is what men tell me
When I cum too fast I can feel her wondering if it is her. But it's not. It is me, and I feel so much shame about it.
I constantly feel the pressure to please her, to perform, to 'be the man', so I avoid sex altogether.
Often I am done before she has even warmed up. I am now too nervous to initiate sex anymore.
Sex has become a performance that I am failing at. I feel more and more disconnected from my partner.
When she reaches for me, I pull away. Not because I don't love her. Because I'm terrified of fucking up again.
It's not just confidence in the bedroom that has gone. It has leaked into all of my life. I feel uninspired, depressed even.
If any of that sounds familiar, you are in exactly the right place.
You are not alone
of men aged 40 to 70 experience some level of erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation. You are in good, quiet company, most just never say it.
If you experience any of this,
Know that your body is not betraying you. It is doing exactly what it was trained to do, rush, finish, disconnect.
The culture trained it. Pornography trained it. Years of unconscious habit trained it. The great news is, you can retrain it. That is what this program is: a retraining of your nervous system, your body, your arousal, your energy, your shadow, and the relationship between all of it and your life as a man.
Not a band-aid. The whole thing.
What Fully Charged is
Not just the techniques.
The whole man.
A 6-week live group program for men who are ready to do the actual work , and it is a lot of fun, I promise, with a bonus 7th-week Q&A. Body, mind, energy and shadow, as well as all about her. See what happens when you stop leaking your life force out unconsciously and start running at full capacity instead.
Live on Zoom
A 90-min call every week, Melissa actually there with you.
Practice between
Real practices you do between calls. The work lives there.
A room of men
Held in a container of men doing this alongside you.
this is the gym for your cock.
and for the man behind it.
I've searched for years to connect with the perfect person! Your content was lightyears beyond my greatest expectations. Unbelievable Melissa!!! Fantastic Job! I not only learned So Much about myself, but you ladies as well. You have normalized everything in such a way that makes one feel comfortable with ones own truth. Not enough Thanks You's I can offer, so Thank You! Thank You! Thank You!
Steven
USA
In this program, we dove deep into not only our sexual energy but also the dynamics of our partner's (or potential partner's) energies. Becoming more educated about our sexual energy has allowed me to better harness this power to increase my overall health, focus, and confidence. For so long, I had taken part in unhealthy sexual practices because I had never been taught by parents, society or friends, what a healthy sex life really looks like. Something that Melissa said that has always stuck with me was that "we are never taught how to be great lovers". That has all changed for me now.
Conner
USA
men have used this method
Your guide
I am Melissa Louise.
Certified Erotic Blueprint and UPLVL Coach, trained in Taoist and Tantra. For over two decades I've worked at the intersection of sex, intimacy and the human body, privately with men and couples around the world.
I've held this work with men who built businesses from what they learned, reclaimed marriages they thought were over, had the best sex of their lives in their 70s, and simply felt good in their own skin for the first time in years. Fully Charged is the live version. The one where I am actually there with you.
The curriculum
Six weeks.
Live. programmed for life
A live call every week, real practice in between. This is not a course you buy and forget by the weekend, it is dynamic, and it works.
Week 01
Creating a New Foundation
Before any technique, we reset the system.
- The 5 steps to mastering your ejaculation
- The importance of testicular massage
- The healthy way to do Kegels, without pushing yourself to premature ejaculation
Week 02
Arousal Mastery
Learn the map before you read the terrain.
- Learn your own arousal map
- 3 pattern-interrupt techniques to last longer
- Sexual reflexology
- Build capacity for pleasure without ejaculating
- Introducing the scooch ball
Week 03
The Body in Practice
Put it into the body, not just the head.
- Pelvis-opening exercise sequence
- Cock yoga, yes, it is a thing
- Your PNR and the Microcosmic Orbit
- Your Erotic Blueprint
Week 04
Shadow & Desire
Meet what you've been outrunning.
- Your two primal masculine forces, to kill and to fuck (a guided process)
- Bringing your true desires out of the shadows
- The dark side of porn
Week 05
Her, Become a Pussyologist
What she needs that no one taught you.
- Pussyology
- Her anatomy, her arousal map, her 3 gateways of orgasm, and why each requires something different from you
- Sexual currency
Week 06
Lengthen & Strengthen
Run at full capacity, everywhere.
- Cock Gym for length
- The 8 types of male orgasm
- Sex Magic, the surprising link between your libido, your mission and your cash flow
Week 07 · Bonus
Bonus Call
Roughly two weeks after the program ends.
- Q&A and check-in
Everything you get
What's inside
Included · the on-demand vault
The Man In Control online program
Where every practical video lives, yours to keep, for life.
Who this is for
All men.
In a relationship or single.
If you have a partner, this changes what happens between you. If you don't, it changes what you bring to the next one, and to yourself in the meantime.
This is for you if you have ever,
This is not for men who want a quick fix with no practice between sessions. The work lives in the practice, and the results are permanent because of that.
What becomes possible
When you stop bleeding
your life force out
You choose when you ejaculate.
Not a minute before you are ready.
She doesn't just moan. She melts.
She opens, and she trusts, because you know what you are doing, and she can feel it.
Masturbation stops draining you.
It starts fuelling you instead.
Your erections show up.
Because your body is no longer running on stress and shame.
The confidence doesn't stay in the bedroom.
It doesn't know how. It leaks into all of your life.
Your life force stops leaking out.
Men have built businesses from this work, gained clarity on their mission, made more money. You get to choose where it goes.
Great lovers are not born.
They are made.
Real stories
What changes for the
men who do this work
Three months with Melissa did more for our marriage than the marital counselling we had. Our relationship has improved to a level I wouldn't have imagined. Now I feel confident, in control, and we have had more sex this year than the last two years combined.
My wife says, “It's like we are in our 20s again.” I am a better man in so many ways because of Melissa.
Bill
Worked privately with Melissa
Melissa brings a powerful mix of knowledge about relationships and our masculine energies. Having her in our corner, with her care for men, and the women who receive our love in healthier ways, is truly a gift.
Her ability to facilitate open and honest discussions is truly remarkable. Compassionate, informative and empowering, an invaluable resource in this field. I highly recommend the work.
Stories from men and couples Melissa has worked with privately and in groups. Results vary, the work lives in the practice.
Join Fully Charged
Get Fully Charged
Six weeks. Live. A room of men doing the work alongside you.
Start date
Thursday
6 August 2026
Investment
$689
payment plans available
A 1:1 coaching upgrade is available for men who want to continue the work privately, solo or with their partner, after the program ends.
Questions?
email meHow you show up in sex is how you show up in life. Every single time.
Melissa Louise