Look…..
the majority of people in your life and over your life span will not say this to you. Not your doctor, not your sports coach ( although she or he should of all people ) not your friends, not your religious leader and not your mum or dad as you started to leave the house ( ..I am the mother that did though…) or anyone else in your culture. And that is the narrative and ignorance surrounding sex has been quietly, systematically, draining you of your power since you were old enough to discover the sensations in your pants.
Our culture pushes men to treat their ejaculate as a waste product for a very good reason.
Are you ready for this…?
…one ejaculation contains approximately 200,000 terabytes of information. Yep…..let me say it again..
200,000 terabytes.
That is the equivalent of 800,000 iPhones, 200,000 laptops and one single large commercial data centre. You have a supercomputer factory between your legs and you have been conditioned to treat what it produces as a waste product throwing it away in tissues and condoms down the drain into land fill and oceans.
I mean………
Our world has been structured so that this type of momentary “freedom” from the chaos that you experience is believed to be something releasing and satisfactory.
Yet if you are to get real with yourself I will take a guess that this moment is getting to be not so satisfactory and is actually contributing to more and more depletion. It is nto actually tension you are releasing, it is pure life force energy that you are getting rid of.
Your intelligence.
Your creative power ( A white guy named Napolean HIll wrote all about this in 1936 in one of the most iconic business books for men..Think Big, Grow Rich )
This power has someone to go inside of you, not into a tissue or down the drain.
Every spiritual tradition that has ever taken men’s power seriously has known this. The ones in power today know it too which is exactly why porn is free. And so accessable.
Think about that.
An entire industrial complex, available to you at any hour, on any device, at zero cost. But who funds free? And who benefits from you sitting alone, draining the most concentrated biological intelligence on the planet, into a tissue, several times a week, chasing a simulation?
You are being told to conquer women.
To score.
To notch.
To be manly or masculine in the form of releasing…..
and repeat.
You are being handed a cultivated script about your sexuality that keeps you small and disconnected and perpetually half powered under the careful watch of the big three.
Religious institutions have done it through shame.
Patriarchal culture has done it through idolizing this warped idea of performance.
And the pornography industry does it through momentary pleasure which is, of course, the most effective delivery system of all.
The truth is that a man in his full power is totally ungovernable and this they do not want. Lovers…your power lives inside of your own body.
And you access this power by coming into conversation with your own sexual energy, how to move it through your body and by deciding when, how and with who you ejaculate.
Mastering your ejaculation is the biggest power move you can do for yourself. Not this bulky gym bro body that is out of proportion to your stature that gets you high fives from other men…… but the power that lives in your body as you learn to circulate it that has your woman seeking you for intimacy.
Your power is in retention that cultivates deep deep presence. In learning to feel the full charge of your own life force moving through your body and choosing consciously and deliberately what you do with it.
This lovers is the true strength of a man. And this is why I have been supporting men to do this for over 2.5 decades. because as a woman i know we need strong powerful men in this world…truly powerful men.
Imagine what your creativity looks like when that energy has nowhere to leak?
Imagine what your focus feel like? Your drive? Your magnetism in a room?
What does your body feel like when it is running at full charge rather than perpetually rebooting from empty in the never ending cycle of exhaustion.
These are not rhetorical woo woo questions. They are one of the most incredible invitations I can offer you.
Do you take this invitation with curiosity? Do you wonder what it would be like to take on the radical act of treating what your body produces as sacred and powerful rather than something disposable.
You are not a machine that needs to vent pressure.
You are a man carrying extraordinary biological intelligence in your own body.
And what you do with that intelligence, where you direct it, how you honour it, whether you spend it or invest it, will shape everything.
Your energy.
Your clarity.
Your relationships.
And especially your capacity to create the life you want, lead and love at the level you were actually built for.
If you are ready to stop treating your ejaculate like a waste product, then join us inside of “FULLY CHARGED”. This is my live 6 week program for men where I teach you what I have been teaching men for the past 2.5 decades. and that is how to master your ejaculation for your yourself, your lover and your life. I have not met ONE MAN who has regretted learning this…not one man EVER..
join us here…we start August 6th.
Always with Pleasure
M
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I am Melissa Louise is an UPLVL Coach working with men on emotional embodiment, sexual sovereignty, and returning to their full power.