I can hear many men right now going..”see. it’s not my fault”
And yes… your body is doing exactly what it was designed to do. Precisely, very efficiently, and with impeccable evolutionary logic. The thing is that this quick ejaculation thing was designed for the Sahara.
And you no longer live there.
What is not explained when a man is handed the shame of finishing too fast is that it is his ancestral wiring. The sympathetic nervous system, the one that governs ejaculation, is the same system that governs fight or flight. Threat and urgency that needs speed and survival.
In the environment where human sexuality evolved, sex was a vulnerability. Both partners exposed with their attention diverted meaning their defences were down. Predators and rival males were a real threat. The man who could ejaculate quickly and return to alert status outlived and out-reproduced the man ( we ache for now ) who lingered.
In this scenario speed was not seen as a failure as it was a survival strategy.
Chimpanzees (whom they a say are our closest relatives) average 6 to 7 seconds of actual copulation. Most primates complete in under 3 minutes. Humans lost the penis bone ( maybe that is the rib reference…a woman does come from the mans bone..ejaculate travelling along the bone….anyway I digress in my head with whimsical musings ) that other primates use to sustain prolonged penetration. Evolution removed this bone as it was not needed if you could be speedy about it.
And then….. there is sperm competition. When a male faced rivals who might also be mating with the same female, the one who ejaculated fastest and with the most volume had the greatest chance of paternity. Men can actually adjust their ejaculate volume, speed and concentration, within hours in response to a perceived rival. The body is extraordinarily sophisticated about this. It has been running this programme for hundreds of thousands of years.
The thing is that this programme is still running in your body right now.
Add to that every masturbation session that trained your nervous system toward fast release. The pornography that conditioned arousal to escalation and quick finish. The anxiety of performance that triggers the sympathetic system which then speeds everything up, which creates more anxiety, which speeds things up further. A loop that has nothing to do with desire at all and everything to do with a nervous system executing its ancient instructions under modern day pressure.
phew…..
The average man today without any training, lasts 5.4 minutes. ( that is 5 point 4..not 54 ) And that number drops with age, stress, and everything the modern world is doing to male nervous systems right now.
None of this is your fault…..And all of it can be changed.
You wont win the fight of your biology but you can work with your nervous system instead of against it. By learning to move out of sympathetic dominance and into the part of your body that knows how to stay, to build the capacity to hold more and to choose when and with who YOU ejaculate.
That is a skill, yes, and it is learnable.
It is exactly what my program Fully Charged teaches. It teaches you to retrain your system and it is more practical than you may think.
The Sahara nor big cats are not waiting to pounce on you anymore.
You get to take your time and take as long as SHE needs.
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